Solutions...

1. I am not successful if I am not SATISFIED with my OWN accomplishments.

Who cares what others think of what I do.

At the end of the day, I am the only one that has to accept me when I look in the mirror.

If I can't look myself in the mirror, then I have some issues to address.

I know what they are, I will address them and do the following...

2. I must stop WILLING myself to fail.

Stop blaming others

Stop blaming myself

Have some goals - even if others think they are silly or minor

Don't choose the wrong goals - only I decide if they are right or wrong for ME

Don't take short cuts but also don't take the long road

Don't neglect the little things - and I am one of the little things that I neglect, so stop it

Don't quit too soon - I decide what this demarcation is

Don't burden myself with the past - oh boy, this is a biggy

Don't fool myself that I'm successful or that I can now stop striving - I also decide what this is

And, determine for myself what "successful means" and stick to it. Don't fall prey to someone else's definition.